Being a tidy person is not easy. It actually sucks. Because the majority of people do not really care about cleanliness of their habitation. Well, of course they do clean up, it is just that they do not care about order. And tidy people do. And what is worse, they absolutely hate chaos. They need everything oranized.
And so if you live with one, here are some things you might be doing that might be killing them. Like everything you are doing. You know, it is not your fault, but no matter how hard you try, you just cannot do it just as good as they would. And you have to learn to live with that. Just try your best and it will be fine.